It seems as though a lot of men are still hung up on the idea of receiving pleasure from their back side. Even though it has been proven time and again that the most powerful sexual source of pleasure comes from the prostate, very few men that do not identify as gay attempt to explore that part of their body.
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It comes as no surprise that this fear lies in not wanting to be associated with femininity and homosexuality but gone should be the days in which either of those two concepts are seen as an inferiority to masculinity.
So, here at Gentside, we've decide to help you guys out in exploring a truly game changing sexual practice that can revolutionize your sex life–regardless of who you choose to do this with.
Where exactly is the prostate and how do you find?
First, the prostate is a muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculate. It's essentially what helps you shoot out semen from your penis. It also happens to be surrounded by thousands of nerve endings that are responsible for producing extreme pleasure when stimulated the right way and it is located just two inches inside the rectum somewhere between the rectum and the penis.
And the best way of finding this little guy is to enter the anal region but it can also be stimulated indirectly through the perineum (also known as the taint) which is the skin that runs underneath the scrotum to the anus.
What are the best practices to get the job done?
First and foremost, you might want to clean up down there just so you (and your partner!) can feel at ease knowing that no accidents will happen. Enemas–or douches–are recommended here. Next, you will absolutely want to lubricate whatever object or body part you plan on using to enter your anal cavity.
Once the two preparatory steps are done the only thing left to do is actually getting to do it! So, the best way to stimulate the prostate is by using the 'come hither' technique. You will insert your lubricated index finger into your anus and curl your finger upward in a 'come hither' motion toward the belly button and repeat this motion while gradually increasing speed to intensify pleasure.
Lastly, be patient with yourself and if you decide to try this with your partner make sure you practice ample amounts of communication!
